Looking Through Them

People Watching

It is the act and art of observing people in their natural and unnatural environments.

I like to think I am one of those people who use their free time in public productively. I read, study, listen to music and sometimes take the occasional nap. There are very few things that can distract me from my endeavors except one; the observation of those around me. It is not that I am nosy or bored when I intently observe others. I am merely fascinated with people. All throughout elementary and junior high school I longed to be an anthropologist because the study of foreign cultures and their people greatly appealed to me. I am fortunate to live in a city where I can observe hundreds of cultures a day learning, living and loving in their own special way. I love watching people interact with their loved ones, their hated ones, and the most revered. There is something so beautiful, raw and amusing about watching a person laugh, cry, or even shout for a reason unknown to you.

Sometimes, people watching contributes to a higher value of self. I see the hardships people endure, the sadness they encounter and pity not only their lives but their lack of hope. Watching people in their day to day lives can also contribute a deeper faith in mankind, and a conviction of the existence of love. Other times, unfortunately, the harshness of man and their sinful ways can lend a helping hand in a sense of loathing toward mankind and even in my absolute denial of love. I love that watching others in their monotony can inspire such emotions and almost always prompts you to want to share with them a hope for a better future.

Some choice people watching venues:
Parks: Prospect Park, The Rambles in Central Park, Union Square Park and City Hall Park
Museums: The MET to watch the aspiring, the museum of Natural History to watch the everyday man and his clan of children and The Whitney to watch those already inspired.
Neighborhoods: Park Slope, Lower East Side, the Financial District, Harlem, Bay Ridge, and Chelsea
The subway, supermarkets, cafes, restaurants, the DMV, waiting rooms and libraries are also optimal places to view people.

Please remember, do not stare, gawk or laugh at your subjects. They may flee, yell or attempt to inflict physical harm.
I suggest you take a stroll to your nearest park, cafe, or grocery store, pop in those earbuds and soak in people at their best, worst and oddest.

Today's inspirations: Spartans outdoor seating, the awkward middle aged couple on their first date seated right next to me, Gray Stables by Iron & Wine and City Hall Park.